We banned the boss from talking

At a dental practice, the team was given an unusual mission: Protect an egg and throw it out the window.
Each group had different materials - scissors here, glue there, only paper elsewhere. But only one person had everything: the boss.
Normally, he would've stepped in, taken over, explained the right way. He always did.
But this time, he wasn't allowed to speak.
That was the real challenge - not for the team, but for him.
The result? Some eggs survived. Some cracked.
Some teams made clever use of what they had. Others struggled. But everyone tried. And for once, the boss had to watch in silence as they did it their way - sometimes right, sometimes wrong, but always theirs.
Afterward, he reflected:
He had built a habit of helping that was, in truth, holding people back.
By constantly "fixing" things, he was robbing his team of the space to struggle, solve, and grow.
They didn't need more advice. They needed more trust - and the right materials.
What changed?
The focus shifted from micromanaging to resourcing.
From "Here's how you do it" to "Here's what you need - go try."
And the lesson?
Sometimes the best thing a leader can say is nothing at all.
Especially when that silence creates space for others to rise.
Learn more about our way of working
- Leadership training - building self-awareness around leadership style and control
- Pulse sessions - short, focused interventions that shift perspective
- How we work - the power of reflection after experience
